Surfin` Seventeen.com, their flipbooks and looking for romantic love rituals. *nice* (theres nothing for me to do in tha office)

sometimes, i wondered why none of my past relationship worked out? i came out with an answer after a very long time, trying to figure out what actually went wrong.

wrong support. women from venus, care is in the picture. men from mars, independance and power is in the picture. For women, we need to care and shower concerns especially over the ones who laid close to our hearts. For man, they go to their caves when they have problem. Their motto is something like "i can do it myself, dont touch me unless i asked for it" And providing help without them asking is a regard of not trusting them to handle a problem. Through handling the problem, they gain power.

come to think of the 24/7 girlfriend i had been, overly nice. i am a whiner, but it is somehow in the blood of woman. after whining we feel better, dont ask why cos we just do. but for man, if we tell them we are upset- they will try to "invalidate" our reasons of being upset, which in tha case made us more upset. Seriously, dont invalidate us by saying 'it's nothing, dont get upset bout it', 'it's no big deal'. it inevidently made us, lose faith of what you said, though you meant it in another way in your planet. just try hard to listen instead of providing solutions for us, we dont want solutions cos we need a listening ear. we fall in love through our ears, not our ears. Men fell in love through their eyes.

this happen in almost every relationship which didnt work out. almost every.

*yearning the clock to strike 6pm, on a friday